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Maybe it's just me feeling grossly disenfranchised from the house right now, but school hasn't even started yet, and I'm already contemplating how/when/where to find other housing.
I spent all this evening with Betzen and Valerie (Betzen's last night before he goes to Montana for Grad school) and during the evening's events I decided that if Val were a guy, we would be awesome roommates. She most promptly agreed. But then we got to thinking, and thus into trouble.
Why should a gender difference matter? I would understand if we were both normal 18-year-old freshman moving out from under the wings of our parents for the first time. But the fact is, neither of us is normal, at least not in comparison to the binge drinking, party going, "I wanna get laid" college masses. We've been confiding friends for 18 months, and we may have the most stable platonic relationship in existence. Sure it's different, but the standard male/female proximity tension that keeps normal people from doing this just isn't there between us.
Now the sheer logistics of this will most likely prevent it from happening. (She's going to Italy for the next 4 months and will graduate a semester before I do) I'm just wandering if this is hypothetically viable. So tell me kind reader, what say you?
Posted by Kyle at 05:39 AM | Category: It's my lifeVal's a great roommate.. and you're a way cool guy, and you guys would probably fit well together as roommates if, that is, you both were of the same gender. I'd be totally all about the idea if it weren't for this little detail. Not that anything would happen between you two.. or even that either of you would want something to happen... but many times I think we don't realize how crazy we can get when we spend a LOT of time with someone of the opposite sex, whether we intend it to happen or not, our feelings often change. Does this make sense?
Posted by: Kristi at August 11, 2003 02:49 PMWord.
Posted by: Sarah at August 11, 2003 11:35 PMI don't care what kind of roommate I get, so long as I have somewhere to live and someone to help pay the rent.
Posted by: Nick Mucci at August 15, 2003 03:40 PM